The moment has finally come. You are sure that next time he’s at your place everything will get dirty. Music plays a huge role during a stay-at-home date. Right tracks are usually the basis, the background, which tunes you up and prepares for that dirty stuff. How to choose the most suitable music? The one, which will create the relaxing atmosphere and won’t darken the amiable mood. What singers should you prefer on this exact day? So many questions and so little info on the net.
Here you will have both short pieces of advice and clear examples. Let’s get it started.
1. Get to know his/her tastes.
Having heard the favorite music, your place will become cozier and more comfortable for your partner. So how actually to find out? Rack your brains and remember those playlists he/she gave, sent, and simply shared with you. Study his/her profile in social networks, his subscriptions to the singers on Facebook, playlists on Spotify and most viewed videos on YouTube or preferences on online dating accounts like romancecompass.com Do the research and choose those that fit most for the date. By the way, choosing his best artists for the first night saves you. Just imagine you picked the best track for you and sex went horribly. Music tends to soak in the associations.
2. Say “NO” to very complicated, psychological songs
Again, music during a date is just a background, nothing more. Your partner should think about you. Pop songs may make you both sing along some of the lines. It distracts a lot. Her screaming, “Hit me, baby, one more time” of Britney Spears’s will make it both funny and awkward for a date like this. Just turn it on later when all the tension disappears.
3. Let the music do its stuff
Sometimes music can do fantastic things. Several tracks can separate you from other people, problems for a moment. What you got to do is just to enjoy the moment. For example, radio won’t create such an effect. The speech of announcer about the crash in Egypt or the noisy ad of toothpaste is totally beside the point. In addition, the bad thing to do is choosing rap songs that make you think about sex. Come on,
there must be always a secret. He/she has to guess what is going to be next. That mystery is the best in relationships.
4. Use low frequencies in your favor
You know some sounds can create a subconscious effect on the human ear. The body always appreciates a lot of basses. So, what you want to do is to make sure bass on a computer, phone, acoustic system works properly. Your next step is to forget about high-pitched singers like Ariana Grande or Demi Lovato for this night. Find something in Jazz and music where the strings are loud enough especially cellos and
contrabass.
5. Make up a huge playlist
Turn on the nonstop function on your device, because pauses are bad for the date. So what you have to do? Get up every 30 minutes and click on the next song. No. The perfect would be a separate CD with special songs. At least 2 hours of songs are preferable. Usually, this amount of time is pretty enough for the prep. And then it won’t matter. You will be so engaged that you won’t notice the 5th repeat of the playlist in the morning.
THE MOST SUITABLE MUSIC:
-simple and low-pressure pop songs
-lounge, chill-out, ambient; the music played in cafes and restaurants (Café del Mar, Massive Attack, De-
Phazz, Leonard Cohen, the XX, Karunesh)
-ballads (Scorpions, Roxette, Mariah Carrey etc.) and the whole Romantic Collection (if your partner
doesn’t mind)
-quiet and calm Latino, preferably instrumental by Shakira, Enrique Iglesias, Cesaria Evora etc.
-jazz (esp. smooth jazz Duke Ellington, Kenny G, Charles Mingus)
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